• The Beauty of Fellow Feeling

    I cried for I didn’t think it could be true

    That you and I might have always known one another

    And that we could not only evoke, but conjure a place of our own

    And everywhere. That has ever existed

    It was in service of our dream

    Now please, hear what I hear

    Let me explain

    This ugliness, this cruelty, this repulsiveness

    It will all die out

    And now, I cry for all that is beautiful

  • photik:


    in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result

    If only everybody did this.

  • It’s pretty crazy the amount of shit some people had to go through in their life.


    And they’re still standing here today moving forward, I respect that a lot.

  • Jul

  • (Source: diorpaint)


  • (Source: art-directter)

  • Q: 3, 5, 39

    -asked by Anonymous


    3:If your significant other smoked pot, would you care?

    a little bit, it’s not something i’d wanna live with in the long run, thats for sure. 

    5:What were you doing at 11PM last night?

    reconnected with someone special

    39:Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone?

    no, i’m an open book for the most part. i don’t have anything to hide nor do i ever find a reason to hide.

  • ass-ume:


    Never get mad at someone with anxiety for apologizing a lot. It’s a coping mechanism and yelling only makes it worse. They don’t need tough love or anything like that. Reassurance that they are fine is the most important thing

    please listen to this post

    (Source: princessspookymf)

  • Trance isnt for the average person, its an acquired taste

    - (via tonyspam)

    (Source: ynotspam)

  • youngblackandvegan:

    no one is going to know what you need
    unless you tell them what you need
    no one is a mind reader
    and it’s unfair for you to be upset with people who have no clue what’s going on in your mind
    open up your mouth
    and express what you want
    • 1: Let’s start with a tricky one; what is the real reason you are confused right now?
    • 2: Do you ever get “good morning” texts from anyone?
    • 3: If your significant other smoked pot, would you care?
    • 4: Do you find it easy to trust others?
    • 5: What were you doing at 11PM last night?
    • 6: You’re drunk and lost walking down the road; who is with you?
    • 7: What would you do if you found out you had been cheated on?
    • 8: Are you close with your dad?
    • 9: I bet you kissed someone last night, right?
    • 10: What are you listening to?
    • 11: You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life - what is it?
    • 12: Do you like hickeys?
    • 13: What time do you go to bed?
    • 14: Is there someone who continuously lets you down?
    • 15: Can you text as quickly with one hand as you do both?
    • 16: Do you always answer your texts?
    • 17: Do you hate the person you fell the hardest for?
    • 18: When was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?
    • 19: Is there someone that makes you happy every time you see them?
    • 20: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?
    • 21: Is anyone else in the room with you?
    • 22: Do you believe what goes around comes around?
    • 23: Were you happier four months ago than you are now?
    • 24: Is there someone you wish you could fix things with?
    • 25: In the past week, have you cried?
    • 26: What colour is the shirt you are wearing?
    • 27: Do people ever call you by your last name?
    • 28: Is anyone ignoring you right now?
    • 29: Do you have a best friend?
    • 30: Would it be hard seeing someone else kiss the last person you kissed?
    • 31: Who was your last call/text message from?
    • 32: Are you mad at anyone?
    • 33: Have you ever kissed someone older than you?
    • 34: How old will the last person you kissed be on his/her next birthday?
    • 35: How many more days until your birthday?
    • 36: Do you have any summer plans yet?
    • 37: Do you have any good friends of the opposite sex?
    • 38: Are you keeping anything from your best friend(s) now?
    • 39: Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone?
    • 40: Have you ever regretted kissing someone?
    • 41: Do you think age matters in relationships?
    • 42: Are you available?
    • 43: How many people have you had real, strong feelings for since high school ended?
    • 44: If you had to get a piercing (not ears), what would you get?
    • 45: Do you believe exes can be friends?
    • 46: Do you regret anything?
    • 47: Honestly, what’s on your mind right now?
    • 48: Did you ever lose a best friend?
    • 49: Was your last kiss a mistake?
    • 50: Why aren’t you pursuing the person you like?
    • 51: Has the last person you kissed ever seen you cry?
    • 52: Do you still talk with the person you LAST kissed?
    • 53: What was the last thing you ate?
    • 54: Did you get any compliments today?
    • 55: Where are you going on your next vacation?
    • 56: Do you own anything from other countries?
    • 57: Are most of your friend guys or girls?
    • 58: Where have you lived most of your life?
    • 59: When was the last time you took a long drive?
    • 60: Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?
    • 61: Have you ever TPd someone’s house?
    • 62: Who do you text the most?
    • 63: What was the last movie you saw?
    • 64: What’s preventing your current boyfriend/girlfriend from going back to their ex?
    • 65: How many boyfriends/girlfriends did you have in 2011?
    • 66: Is the last person you kissed younger than you?
    • 67: Do you curse around your parents?
    • 68: Are you happy with where you live?
    • 69: Picture of yourself?
    • 70: Are you a monogamous person or do you believe in open-ended relationships?
    • 71: Have you ever been dumped?
    • 72: What do you most like about making out?
    • 73: Have you ever casually made out with someone who you weren’t seriously involved with?
    • 74: When you kiss someone for the first time, is it usually you who initiates it or the other?
    • 75: What part of a person’s body do you find most attractive?
    • 76: Who was the last person you talked to last night before you went to bed?
    • 77: Had sex with someone you knew less than an hour?
    • 78: Had sex with someone you didn’t know their name?
    • 79: What makes your heart flutter and brings a big cheesy smile to your face?
    • 80: Would you get involved with someone if they had a child already?
    • 81: Has someone who had a crush on you ever confessed to you?
    • 82: Do you tell a lot of people when you have a crush?
    • 83: Do you miss your last sweetie?
    • 84: Last time you slow danced with someone?
    • 85: Have you ever ‘dated’ someone you’ve never met?
    • 86: How can I win your heart?
    • 87: What is your astrological sign?
    • 88: What were you doing last night at 12 AM?
    • 89: Do you cook?
    • 90: Have you ever gotten back in touch with an old flame after a time of more than 3 months of no communication?
    • 91: If you’re single right now, do you wish you were in a relationship?
    • 92: Do you prefer to date various people or do you pretty much fall into monogamous relationships quickly?
    • 93: What physical traits do you look for in a potential interest?
    • 94: Name four things that you wish you had!
    • 95: Are you a player?
    • 96: Have you ever kissed 2 people in one day?
    • 97: Are you a tease?
    • 98: Ever meet anyone you met on Tumblr?
    • 99: Have you ever been deeply in love with someone?
    • 100: Anybody on Tumblr that you’d go on a date with?
    • 101: Hugs or Kisses?
    • 102: Are you too shy to ask someone out?
    • 103: The first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
    • 104: Is it cute when a boy/girl calls you babe?
    • 105: If a sexy person was pursuing you, but you knew he/she was in relationship, would you go for it?
    • 106: Do you flirt a lot?
    • 107: Your last kiss?
    • 108: Have you kissed more than 5 people since the start of 2012?
    • 109: Have you kissed anyone in the past month?
    • 110: If you could kiss anyone who would it be?
    • 111: Do you know who you’ll kiss next?
    • 112: Does someone like you currently?
    • 113: Do you currently have feelings for anyone?
    • 114: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
    • 115: Ever made out with just a friend?
    • 116: Are you happier single or in a relationship?
    • 117: Your own question that you want me to answer. Just write it.
  • calligraphicwaves:

    If someone cheats on you they do not love you, remember that. If someone cheats on you they do not care about you as much as they say they do. If someone cheats on you it means that for a split second you were off their mind long enough for them to put another person in arms that should only be for you. If someone cheats on you, dear god, I hope you don’t go back to them because you are worth so much more than that.

  • Jul
  • Every relationship is messed up. What makes it perfect is if you still want to be there when things really suck.

    - Carla, Scrubs / S2 x Ep. 16 (via perfect)

    (Source: xrikachu)

  • I crave space. It charges my batteries. It helps me breathe. Being around people can be so exhausting, because most of them love to take and barely know how to give. Except for a rare few.

    - Katie Kacvinsky, First Comes Love (via larmoyante)

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